In November of 2020, I had the honor of decorating for and attending the wedding of my fairy god daughter Claire. This was such a special day, one that we have dreamed of and planned for all the years she worked with me.  A day filled with the love of close family and friends, special memories, and southern traditions.  

The back drop for this special day was Claire's family home, an early 1900's Greek Revival style house that happens to be filled to the brim with family history, stories, and fond memories. Not only did Claire grow up here, but it has been filled by Claire's family members for many generations.  We didn't have to do much to make this old lady shine on wedding day.  Just a few ferns and fresh magnolia leaves and she was ready to welcome her guests!

The day of the wedding was so sweet and perfect!  The house came alive with chatter and laughter as family members gathered to get ready.  Tara and I, along with a few other friends, prepared the food for the reception while sneaking in peeps at the bride while she prepared for her big moment.  Every detail of the day was sweet--even the jewelry had a story.  The pearl necklace was a gift to Claire from her parents when she graduated from high school.  The beautiful gold bracelet was a gift to Claire's mother from her Dad on their wedding day.  Such a special way for Claire to have her Dad with her on her big day. 

The grand staircase of the home was just begging to be draped with the most beautiful fresh garlands.  This was the perfect spot for the bride to show off her beautiful train and veil. 

The garlands were a mix of fresh Italian ruscus, Leyland cypress, magnolia, seeded eucalyptus and baby blue eucalyptus.  

Mr. Terry showed up to decorate the beautiful cake.  So simple and elegant.

At wedding time, a very special escort showed up to drive Claire around to the front of the house for the wedding; Ocilla's former Mayor along with his classic, 1961 Pontiac convertible!  This was such a special treat from our friend and neighbor Lamar, as Claire currently serves on Ocilla City Council, as did her mother and grandfather before her!

Claire's family walked around to the front of the house to signal that it was wedding time!  

It was a perfect cool, November day for this sweet and intimate family gathering, officiated by Claire's uncle.  Every detail was a shining example of the love that this family has for one another.

After the ceremony, guests were welcomed into the house for a small reception.  The dining room was set with a lovely spread of snacks, served on family heirloom serving pieces.  

After a lovely afternoon of visiting, we sent the bride and groom off with much love and dried rose petals.  The perfect ending to the perfect day.

Just a fun side note, Claire and Zack now call this lovely old house thier home!  What a special tradition for Claire to carry, to have grown up here, to marry here, and to now start her own life and family here, in this place so full of happy memories. (p.s., we are still back yard neighbors which is a major blessing to me!)

Two weeks later we all gathered again to celebrate!  After the sweetest wedding day, and a tropical honeymoon, it was time to party!  We were back at the beautiful family home to decorate, string the lights and set up the dance floor!

With a group effort (and some expert steering from Mr. Terry) we moved this old car (loved by Claire's Dad) to the front yard for pictures.

The chilly December evening was perfect!  The neighborhood came alive to the music of an awesome band and the old house was happy once more to have a yard full of guests.

It was so fun to put our dancing shoes on and rejoice over the marriage of Claire and Zack, and it has been a privilege to welcome him to the family! I am so blessed to call them friends and neighbors!

Flowers: The Southern Mercantile
Professional Photos: Amanda Sumner

It isn't any secret that I LOVE to set a pretty table.  I love table linens, dishes, glasses, silverware... if it involves entertaining, I am in.  I thought it would be fun to give you guys some examples of ways you can set a beautiful summer table.  These tips will come in handy whether you are having a couple of friends over for dinner or hosting a large party or shower.  I had a great time using some things from my own collection as well as things we offer in the store.  

My first tip for achieving an interesting and beautiful table is to mix old and new.  I love mixing my vintage finds in with new decor items.  For this table I used a beautiful vintage table cloth, vintage brass candlesticks and my vintage silverplate.  

The white and green color pallet is so warm and inviting and was perfect for showing off gardenias and Queen Anne's lace from the garden.  

My next tip is to not be afraid to mix different shades of white and off white.  For this table I mixed old and new plates.  The off white vintage floral plates sit atop the large white chargers and each place setting got a fresh gardenia to make things extra special.  

Mom and I have had a great time collecting mix and match vintage brass candlesticks. We enjoyed them on the Christmas mantel last year and many of you gave them good homes during the holiday season!  If you are trying to think of other ways to use these beauties, I think it is a cute idea to re purpose these candlesticks as flower vases.  All candlesticks won't work for this but some have hollow centers that allow the flower stems to slide down.  While there is no way to keep the flowers in water, they will stay pretty for a few hours, long enough for you and your guests to enjoy during dinner.  

The next table is much lighter and casual.  I still used my vintage silverplate  for fun but mixed with more casual everyday dishes.  The zinnias and pittosporum were cut from my dad's yard and look so good in these textured white vases.  

When your table is as pretty as this one, sometimes it is nice to use a runner rather than a full tablecloth.  This grey woven runner was just the right amount of texture and color to add a little life to this table.  

If you are decorating your table for fun or for a special occasion, think of fun details you can add like these sweet little birds nests.  A little surprise on every plate!

The next table has a much more modern feel.  The simple white dishes, succulents and black and white linens are begging for a fabulous lunch in the garden or supper served fresh off of the grill.  If you want to mix things up with your linens, try using double runners across the table rather than one runner down the middle. If you have a very long dining table, you might need 3 to achieve this look.  Mixing in the wood, terracotta and blown glass makes it feel very fresh with a nod to the west.  I imagine myself sitting on a fabulous patio in Arizona, surrounded by cactus and a gorgeous orange sun set.  Ok, I am getting carried away.  Can you tell I am really in love with this table?  

I cut some of my biggest succulents for this table.  They happened to be blooming which was perfect to add a little length and drama to my arrangement.  Don't worry, they weren't wasted!  They were given to a friend to be potted where I am sure they will be very happy and make lots of succulent babies.  

Just one more shot of this because I think it is perfection!

The last table is a little more refined and traditional, set with woven place-mats, simple white dishes and plain stainless silverware.  A ginger jar shaped vase full of hydrangeas and gardenias adds a classic, southern feel. 

A place-mat is a great option when you are setting places at your counter or if you have a beautiful table you want to show off.

I hope you will have a little fun this summer dressing up your table, even if it is only for your family!  As always, we love to see how you are decorating at home,  so tag us on Facebook or Instagram!

To shop these beautiful tablescapes, visit our store HERE.

Setting up a beautiful booth space is half of the fun!  Our mini-southern mercantile really came together with a fresh garden theme.  The show walls even got a fresh coat of paint for spring! We used one of our all-time favorite colors, sea salt by Sherwin Williams.  

Roxie and her dad built this beautiful garden arbor for our spring display.  If you missed us at Cottontail's, don't worry, you will get to see this again!  It will be traveling with us this spring.

Roxie brought fresh vines and Bridal Veil blooms from her yard to decorate the arbor.  

As always, we enjoyed our time in Birmingham and truly enjoyed getting to meet new people and visit with our faithful Southern Merc fans.  Every year we recognize more and more of you!  Anyone who signed up for our email list while at the show was entered to win a $50 gift certificate to our online store.  We are so excited to announce the lucky winner is Penny Ferguson!  Happy shopping penny, be on the look out for a happy email in your inbox!

If you missed us at Cottontail's, or if you passed up something you wish you had gotten, don't forget you can shop with us online!  

On Wednesday, Roxie had the opportunity to visit our friend and fellow maker, Leigh Ann from Sweet Auburn Studio!  Her shop, Burrow Goods, is absolutely adorable and is a must-visit if you are in the Birmingham area. In addition to her jewelry design skills and abilities to perfectly curate the goods in her shop, she is also a talented interior designer!

We have a new selection of Leigh Ann's jewelry in our shop at our Fourth and Cherry location, as well as a large selection of thoughtful pieces by our friend, Sharon, of Wallin and Buerkle.  We'll have new pieces listed in the online store soon so be on the look out!

If you missed our first Spring show, don't worry, there are more to come!  Check out our Events Page to see if we will be traveling to a town near you! 

A couple of weeks ago we headed to Braselton, Georgia to set up shop at the Braselton Antique and Artisan Festival.  We had a beautiful start to the weekend with warm, sunny weather.  Perfect for an outdoor venue.

An outdoor set up is a little different for us.  A tent, dirt floor, and no walls posed a small challenge that we eagerly met.  The outcome of this design challenge was a success as we ended up with a charming little space filled with cool vintage finds.

We embraced the atmosphere of being outdoors and brought plenty of garden items, vintage tools and porch & patio decor.

We livened up our space with silk sunflowers and a good assortment of our faux pot plants and succulents.

This was the first show that we were able to show off our line of dresses from Mata Traders.  Mata is a fairtrade business that provides women in India and Nepal with employment.  They provide a fair wage, as well as support in learing life skills to better care for themselves and their families.  We are thrilled to be partnering with this company!  Check out their website for more information about their mission and check out the selection of beautiful dresses in our store!

Tara and Roxie enjoyed getting to model their favorites!

Necklaces, by Sweet Auburn Studio, made from vintage pocket knives are the perfect accessory sass up our dresses by Mata Traders.  We are thrilled to be adding Leigh Ann Harris, the designer and creator of Sweet Auburn, to our talented list of Southern Mercantile Makers!  You can check out a selection of her work in the store and, don't worry, there is more to come!

These sweet gold bells are our new favorites!  They are perfect to hang in the garden, in a wreath on your front door, or group on top of your favorite lantern. They are in stock and available in the store!

While we had great weather on Friday and Saturday, our luck ran out on Sunday. It rained ALL day.  We made the best of it and had a good time, until the very end! That's just the chance you take with an outdoor venue!

Our next travels will take us to Augusta, GA and then to Atlanta. After that, we'll be taking a little travel break until the fall.  If you haven't made it out to see us yet, we hope to meet you in the coming weeks!

If you keep up with our blog here at The Southern Mercantile, then you have probably figured out by now that we LOVE weddings!  From the bouquets to the place cards, we love every detail.  I have been blessed to be involved with many weddings and special events over the years.  You may not know that I, along with my dad, ran a full-service florist for years in my hometown of Ocilla, GA.  In fact, floral and event design run in my blood as my Dad ran a small florist in Ocilla when I was a baby called “The Red Bucket”.  He’s taught me all of his tricks through the years and now Tara, Jorj, and I (along with his help of course) have found ourselves traveling the south providing floral designs for some very special Brides and Grooms!

If you are interested in talking with us about helping with florals and design for your special event, we’d love to hear from you!  We love to travel and experience new places and cool venues.  Over the years we’ve done weddings in Tennessee, South Carolina, and many locations in Georgia.  We’ve conquered the time crunch challenges of ceremonies on the square in downtown Savannah, seen the beauty and possibility in an old church with no electricity and no running water, set the stage for a wedding in a muscadine vineyard, and have even decorated for a ceremony on a mountain top - yes, an actual mountain top!  If you are in the area of Georgia, Florida, Tennessee, Alabama, or South Carolina, we’d be happy to talk with you about traveling to your event and give you a price quote!

For those of you that live too far away to have us come and help with your event, or if you just need a little help with basic wedding planning, we’d like to offer you another way we can help.  If you love our Southern Style and wish you could pick our brains while planning your wedding, then this is for you!  We are now launching The Southern Mercantile Wedding Design Service.

 This service is recommended for the modern bride who needs a little help with basic wedding planning such as color palette, décor ideas, and flower choices.  We will keep the details in mind to ensure that nothing is overlooked on your big day.  Not only will you have a chance to talk with our designers about the details of your wedding day but you will also receive a custom inspiration board with a resource list of where you can purchase the items you need. 

The Southern Mercantile Wedding Design Service will include help with:
Swatches for Color Palette
Décor ideas for wedding and reception venue
Floral Selections
Invitation Suites
Wedding Party Attire
Favor Ideas

Check out The Southern Mercantile Weddings page on our website for more information!  We can’t wait to help you start planning your perfect wedding day!

We’ve been at it again!  In February, The Southern Merc Girls (and posse) were honored to travel to Macon, GA, to decorate and provide florals for the wedding of a very sweet southern couple, Mandy and Caleb.  Neither of the couple is from Macon but chose it as a central location for friends and family to gather for the weekend and celebrate their marriage.  When asked if we would be willing to come along, we didn’t hesitate to join in on the fun.  We loaded up three vehicles with all the necessaries and headed out for a new adventure!  Have flowers, will travel!

The theme for the day was definitely classy and traditional with vintage touches.  Mandy chose a beautiful, old church in downtown Macon as the site of her evening nuptials.  Mulberry Methodist Church is absolutely breathtaking and was the perfect setting for their exchange of vows.

The church is so beautiful, we kept the décor very simple.  As guests arrived at the church they were greeted by swags of fresh garland made of salal leaves and variegated pittosporum.  Wooden lanterns decorated with fresh swags of their own were placed on either side of the front doors to light the way in.  Pews were marked with fresh, mixed southern greenery and white satin bows.  Two large arrangements of mixed greenery and white hydrangeas were placed at the front of the church, on either side of the altar where the bride and groom stood.

Flowers for the wedding party and family members continued with the theme of lots of greenery mixed with creamy white O’Hara roses and white hypericum berries.  Succulents were used in the bride’s bouquet and the groom’s boutonniere to make them a little more special!

The mothers were given wrist corsages made of white satin ribbon and white spray roses.  These types of corsages have become my favorite!  They are so pretty and secure nicely to the wrist so they do not move around or get squished while hugging and taking pictures!

The reception was held at Macon Terminal Station, a historic train depot located in downtown Macon.  This building was built in 1916 and was the highlight of the weekend for us!  What a pleasure to be able to work in such a majestic old structure!  While sitting and working I would find myself getting caught up in the history of the place and imagining passengers buying their tickets at the window and waiting on the long, rounded benches. 

The appetizer and plate table were decorated with large arrangements of greenery, white hydrangeas and O’Hara roses. 

The head table, as well as the long guest tables, were adorned with fresh garland made of salal and variegated pittosporum.  A collection of wooden lanterns lined the head table.  Each lantern was filled with pinecones and candles and decorated on the tops with greenery and satin bows.  

The bride and groom had a special place at the table marked with swags of greenery.  The Groom works in forestry so a woodsy theme was slightly and tastefully woven throughout the event.  Different sizes of wood slices were used to decorate the round tables and were layered with succulent pots, mercury glass votive holders, and moss. 

Dad (Terry) even worked his magic on the cake and adorned it with the flowers of the day. 

When the lights were dimmed and the candles were lit, the vast lobby of that old building glowed with happiness and excitement!  You may think this is crazy, but I believe that old buildings have feelings, and when shown love and attention, they just shine like diamonds! 

The bride was beaming, the families were happy, and a good time was had by all!  That’s another wedding in the books for us and one we’ll not quickly forget! 

Floral Design by:  The Southern Mercantile

Photography by: Sunny Lee

Cake by: Emma Helms

For more information about Macon Terminal Station visit:
http://www.mta-mac.com/TerminalStation.html

You’ve all heard me talk about my Fairy God Children and the joy I have found in being a Fairy God Mother.  Several months ago, my Fairy Godson, Zach, came to let me in on a big surprise and asked me how I felt about being a Fairy Grandmother.  Of course this thrilled me to pieces!  My first Fairy Grandbaby was on the way!  Needing an outlet to focus my excitement, I immediately enlisted Jorjanne and Tara to help me plan a little baby shower for the parents-to-be. 

We decided to host the party in the dining room of our Café (as my house is too tiny to hold all those people).  Zach and Natalie are having a girl, so pink, pale green and mint blue were the colors for the day.  Natalie is using a beautiful floral pattern in the nursery so we decided to carry that theme through to the shower.  The theme of the day was to “Shower” the baby with love. 

I got a really cute idea from pinterest to hang umbrellas from the ceiling.  I recruited my Dad to help with the decorations because, as I have told you before, if I can dream it up, he can make it happen.  We may or may not have gone a little overboard with the umbrellas.  Here is my inspiration picture from pinterest: cute, sweet umbrellas. 

Here is what we came up with: three gigantic pink umbrellas.  I always say, go big or go home!  Hahaha! The dining room is rather large with high ceilings so the extra-large umbrellas brought a nice touch of whimsy.

I have a large collection of vintage containers used by florists for baby-themed arrangements.  These were perfect to use for silverware, food items and table decorations.  I used fresh greenery snipped from the yard to fill the containers used on the guest tables.  This is one of my favorite quick and easy things to do.  We didn’t use any water or oasis as the party was not to last long.

The menu was kept simple for this Sunday afternoon soiree.  We served cranberry pecan chicken salad on fresh baked croissants, cheese straws from Holt’s bakery (a local favorite), strawberry truffles and a pink ombre cake.

The cake (made by Tara) was absolutely gorgeous and quite the crowd pleaser!  Tara is going to share her recipe and tips for creating your own ombre cake a little later in the week.

The afternoon was a little chilly so we served white hot chocolate garnished with pink marshmallows.

I love to use unconventional items as the “guest book”.  You may remember that, at Tara’s wedding, we used a book full of water colors and photographs of old churches, including the church where she was married.  At my own wedding reception I used a vintage art book of Van Gogh paintings that Matt brought to me as a souvenir from one of his trips to Italy.  For this party I used a very sweet little print that said “You are Loved”.

As guests arrived, they stopped to sign the print and leave well wishes for the new baby.  As usual we had a gift table full of festively wrapped gifts!  The couple was blessed by many thoughtful and generous gifts from our Fourth and Cherry family.

This little party is a great example of keeping things simple but oh so sweet!  You don’t have to break the bank to host a special get together to honor those that you love.  Whether it be a baby shower, wedding shower or birthday party, if you infuse your gathering with love, then your party will be enjoyable and memorable to all of your guests!

It’s that time of year again, time for the annual Christmas Open House at The Shoppes!  All of you Southern Merc fans that are from Ocilla have probably been to one of our open house events and know how marvelous it is.  For those of you that are fans from far away, let me just tell you, this is quite possibly my favorite weekend of the year. 

The Fourth and Cherry team spends Friday night through Sunday morning transforming The Shoppes into a magical winter wonderland.   Every year we have a different theme (you know I love a theme!) to set the tone for the décor, food, invitations and other details.  This year’s theme was “Christmas in the Pines”.  Appropriate for a southern Georgia Christmas, don’t you think?

My awesome team spends weeks preparing for this event.  Handmade invitations are printed, glittered and mailed a few weeks before the event.  My Dad and Aunt Janet (the wizards) spend the week before making dozens of gorgeous wreaths and arrangements.  My Café girls start planning for food preparations.   Ornaments and decorations are unpacked and priced.  Tara, Jorjanne and I always have a craft project going on like stamped and glittered gift tags for all of the packages or making feet upon feet of paper chains to decorate with.

I could write pages about how much fun it is to deck the halls at The Shoppes and how awesome all of my helpers are (because really, this would not happen without them).  I think for today, I would like focus on what a special day this is for our community.  I am not exaggerating when I tell you that people look forward to our Christmas Open House all year long.  It has really become more like a homecoming, a festive day to welcome in the Holiday season and to visit with old friends and neighbors.  Every year our crowd grows.  This year we had well over 200 people including neighbors from my childhood (members of the original Alder Street Social Club) who traveled an hour to be with us.  One of my Fairy God Mothers traveled almost two hours to be here.   A very sweet couple that taught here years ago came and visited with old friends and students.  Many of my Fairy God Children were able to be here, including one that I haven’t seen in months.  I even had a cousin travel from Texas, just to be here to help for the weekend!  My heart just explodes with joy when I can have so many, who are special to me, gathered in one place, even if just for a couple of hours.

This year we collected blankets for local foster children and had almost 60 donated!  These blankets will be lovingly embroidered with the children’s names and given to them for Christmas presents.  We also had someone from our local “Called to Care” group on hand to talk with folks about “sponsoring” a foster child for Christmas.  Thanks to our wonderful guests, 12 children were sponsored during open house and we are steadily working on the rest!  If you live locally and are interested in helping to provide Christmas gifts for these children, please contact The Shoppes for more information! 

The second Sunday in November has become one of my favorite days of the whole year.  Yes, it is means weeks of preparation and three very long days with little sleep, but the reward is worth far more than the stress and exhaustion of the work.  It is one day when, not only is my shop absolutely gorgeous and filled with happy people, but a day that our community comes together to laugh and love each other and feel good about life.

We want to know about your favorite Holiday traditions.  We hope you will share with us your favorite way to welcome in the Holidays in your home or hometown. 

We have officially kicked off the Holiday season at The Southern Mercantile and we are filled with Holiday cheer!  We are revamping store and can’t wait to share our favorite Holiday picks with you!  Check back soon to see all that’s new!

No drink screams Fall like hot apple cider. There’s just something about the scent of apples and cinnamon that makes me want to curl up with a blanket and a good book around a roaring fire. However, I live in the South, which means that sometimes in the Fall, it is just too hot to curl up under a blanket with a hot drink around a roaring fire. I feel like I’m melting just thinking about it!

Since it has been too hot for hot apple cider, I have discovered Apple Cider Punch! The original recipe can be found at http://www.bhg.com/recipe/drinks/apple-cider-punch/.

We served our version of this punch at our Shoppes’ Christmas Open House, along with a few other pretty delicious treats!

 We combined the cider and juices a day ahead to make serving easier. Instead of using sparkling grape juice, which is super sweet and pretty expensive for the amount we were making, we used ginger ale. Add your own twist to the recipe and tell us about it!

Apple Cider Punch

6 cups apple cider
2 cups orange juice
1/2 cup lemon juice
1 liter ginger ale


Combine apple cider, orange juice, and lemon juice up to a day ahead and store in the refrigerator. Add chilled ginger ale just before serving.

Once you've nailed down your venue, let the fun begin!  Colors are sometimes the first thought when it comes to planning a wedding.  It is easy to visualize your favorite colors and flowers surrounding you on your special day.  But, the reality of making those choices can greatly depend on season and budget.  Here are a few important things to ponder when choosing wedding colors that I realized along the way:

1. 'Tis the Season
When it comes to choosing the color palette for your wedding, you will definitely want to consider the season. If you have your heart set on using yellow, you may not want to plan for a Winter wedding.  The same goes for maroon--this color is typically more fitting for Fall/Winter rather than Spring.  Think about the message a color sends before you choose it blindly.  

I browsed Pinterest (you can follow The Southern Mercantile on Pinterest) to find a variety of color combinations I thought were fitting to specific seasons. Take a minute to quiz yourself on which seasons you think these color combinations belong in!

2. Venue Style and Atmosphere
For me, the church walls were enough to inspire my color palette and guide me in the right direction.  Take note of what is surrounding you at the venue and how you can use those colors and patterns to your advantage.  It helps create a more cohesive look when your decorations do not seem out of place.